Marriage

Four Critical Principles for Catholic Fathers

St. Joseph and the Christ-Child, Belmont Abbey

“It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father.” (Pope St. John XXIII) I often feel completely lost and befuddled as a Catholic father in today’s world. How do I set the right example? How do I help my sons grow up with a strong Catholic faith? How do I prepare them […]

What have you been given?

Our culture loves to make up fake holidays. National Hot Dog Day, National Get Out Your Guitar Day, World Nutella Day … every food, occupation, habit, or weird hobby has a day. This past week was the annual celebration the world has named Satisfied to be Single Day. It might sound funny, but every February 11 for the past thirteen […]

Going to Jesus Through Mary at Cana

"The Marriage at Cana" by Gaetano Gandolfi [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

There have been many famous weddings in history, but I would argue that none more so than the Wedding Feast at Cana. This vignette in the life of Jesus is found in John’s Gospel and is traditionally held to record his first miracle – what John refers to as “the beginning of his signs.” We can better understand the importance […]

In Defense of Holy Marriage

OUR VOCATION In His infinite love and goodness, God created man and woman in freedom to know, love and serve Him in this life and to spend all eternity with Him in the life to come. This call to holiness and invitation to the end for which we are made is our vocation and dignity as human persons. “Man is […]

The Blessing of Married Life and the Gift of Children

I have a message of hope and encouragement this morning. I believe this message is urgently needed. Why? Because too many of us feel hopeless and discouraged. We look here and there for happiness and fulfillment, but find no meaning for our lives and certainly no joy. I am certain that we would all agree that we live in exceedingly […]

Marital Love

Photography © by Andy Coan

Is annulment just a Catholic Divorce?  This article explains the controversial Roman Catholic position on love, marital intimacy, divorce, remarriage and celibacy. The readings for the Twenty-Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time (Year B) are — Genesis 2:18-24; Psalms 128:1-2, 3, 4-5, 6; Hebrews 2:9-11; Mark 10:2-16 or 10:2-12. The Beatles wrote a song that was the sensation of 1967, “All you need is […]

On Marriage, Leadership and Honoring Our Wives

Bride and Groom

Marriage is in trouble everywhere, especially in our country where over half of marriages end in divorce. Our culture, so influenced by Hollywood and materialism, has set about creating a society which no longer values marriage and the family, but instead favors one which glorifies selfishness, greed and offers false idols for us to worship instead of God. As an […]

Priests and Marriage Preparation

One of the duties of parish priests is to prepare couples for the Sacrament of Matrimony. Many priests love this work. Others admit they find parts of it taxing. But almost all parish priests do it, dedicate quite a lot of time to doing it, and, like other aspects of priestly work, try to do it well. That’s why it […]

The Marriage Minute

Marriage: The Union of One Woman and One Man

This is a Marriage Minute from Integrated Catholic Life with Mike Carlton. Use the player to listen to listen or download the mp3 audio file. Have you ever had an argument with your spouse and wondered when things in the house would return to normal? Arguments are going to happen. Try to address them as they come and not let them […]

The Marriage Minute

Marriage: The Union of One Woman and One Man

This is a Marriage Minute from Integrated Catholic Life with Mike Carlton. Use the player to listen to listen or download the mp3 audio file. Have you ever wondered why some couples get married in the church then stop going? If Church was important to the wedding, then maybe Church is important to the marriage. Jesus elevated marriage to be a […]