So, you’ve got a sin problem too? It’s not uncommon. In fact, it has plagued every living human since the first living humans. It’s called Original Sin. It is part of the human condition. Darn it.
At first we just had to live with it, while God prepare us for the solution. Even His favorite humans, the Hebrews, were not very well behaved. That’s what this Original Sin problem looks like. Just as two-year-olds given rules push their limits, the Hebrew people did things like make a big golden calf to worship just after the babysitter (Moses) told them God said to worship only Him. Then when Moses came back and found them worshipping it, and asked, “What are you doing?!??! I just left the room for 5 seconds?!?!?! Your Dad just told you not to worship anything but HIM!!!” they shrugged, looking as surprised as Moses, and said “We just threw some gold into the fire and this calf came out!”
Does this sound familiar, parents and babysitters of naughty children? Well, it should be familiar to all of us because, unless you’re well on your way to sanctity (and if you’re spending your time reading this, that’s unlikely), it’s probably how your soul, like mine, behaves in the face of God’s loving will.
Even after Christ’s Redemptive work opened the gates of heaven and turned on the tap of grace from which we can drink in God’s refreshing Life, it is still hard to stay the course sometimes. At least we’re in good company, though. Most saints have suffered difficulties and temptations en route to heaven.
Even when we want to do what God wants, it’s hard to do! Not because he asks hard things of us—all He asks us is to love Him—but because we’re just so scatter-hearted. Like a slightly disoriented navigator, we only need veer from our charted course by one degree to completely miss our target destination! Between our condition of concupiscence and Satan constantly thrusting alluring distractions and temptations into our path, we’re going to need a safe strategy to prevent our souls from becoming utterly shipwrecked.
But, our loving Father knows this and has given us sure help. Not only help, but He has given us many navigational tools that can actually turn our failings to good! Here are four simple strategies we can use to help steer you back to His course for your life.
Pray a Morning Offering
Set your course by starting your day offering everything in it to God for His purposes. Super easy. God so wants to help us do The Good, even our intention made at the start of the day covers us if we forget, in the moment, to offer our prayers, works, joys and sufferings, big and small, to His Redemptive work. We don’t do this because His work needs a boost from us, but because, parent-like, He wants us to learn to become like Him (“Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect” Mt 5:48). So all those little difficult moments – suddenly they’re a benefit to the Kingdom of God.
Put God on His Throne of Mercy
When you get lost, find your bearings and recalibrate your course. St. Francis de Sales wrote to one of his spiritual directees, that God’s favorite throne is His throne of Mercy (according to a little book called, How to Profit From One’s Faults by Tissot, which I can’t find now to quote directly. I love this book, but I thought it was going to help me become rich!). The only time He gets to sit on it is when we approach him seeking forgiveness and mercy. If we reflect often on how tenderly He receives us when we seek His mercy, we should not hesitate through shame or embarrassment, but we should run to Him with our sins.
Far from encouraging us to sin more, in order to let Him sit there more often, the thought of His loving forgiveness will help us to love more, sin less. Because as reassuring and refreshing as received forgiveness is, the prospect of deliberately withholding our love from one Whose being is the source of all love is absurd. The sins we will no doubt fall into will provide more than ample occasions for God to sit upon His favorite throne.
Use your habitual sins to become a saint
Surely I’m not alone in repeating the same sins time after time in confession. There is probably a reason for this, besides that I’m a weak schmuck. The reason may be that God has given us character strengths and talents that will help us fulfill His mission for us in our lives. These are like the sails of our vessel.
As we know, in order to hit our destination, our trajectory has to be right on the mark. Satan knows this too. So, rather than expending a lot of energy tempting us to turn 180 degrees to commit sins that are completely out of character, he only needs to use our natural strengths and momentum, while distracting us from our course by a degree or two. If he can get us to set our sails wrong, they will carry us forward, but not to our intended destination.
The way I figure it, if we look closely at those habitual sins that divert us from our target of sanctity, we can figure out what strength or talent is being distorted. Then, find a fitting use for your gift that will build up the kingdom of God and put it to work there!
What could be more satisfying than turning Satan’s own devious stumbling blocks into stepping stones to get to heaven?! And, if we get good at this, maybe he’ll leave us alone for fear of filling heaven through his efforts.
Keep your eye on the Star
Lastly, every navigator knows to look to the stars to get their bearing and know the direction to go. We too can look to the star, Stella Maris—Mary Star of the Sea. Look to Mary, she exists to point the way to Jesus, our Savior.
Prayer to Mary, Star of the Sea
Hail, O Star of the ocean, God’s own Mother blest, ever sinless Virgin, gate of heav’nly rest.
Taking that sweet Ave, which from Gabriel came, peace confirm within us, changing Eve’s name.
Break the sinners’ fetters, make our blindness day, chase all evils from us, for all blessings pray.
Show thyself a Mother, may the Word divine born for us thine Infant hear our prayers through thine.
Virgin all excelling, mildest of the mild, free from guilt preserve us meek and undefiled.
Keep our life all spotless, make our way secure till we find in Jesus, joy for evermore.
Praise to God the Father, honor to the Son, in the Holy Spirit, be the glory one.
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These four simple navigational tools can make the difference between shipwreck and smooth sailing in our daily spiritual journey.