Five Important Lessons from Saint Joseph

JosephJesusStatue-spc-feature-only-w480x300As the father of a teenager with high-functioning autism, I am sometimes challenged to give my oldest child the focus and patience he needs from me.  I frequently feel inadequate when I advise and guide my 12 year old son through the minefields of today’s culture.  My loving wife should expect my best efforts as a husband, yet I often feel distracted or too worn out to give her the 100% she deserves.  With Father’s Day fast approaching, I have recognized for several weeks that I needed to make a course correction and get back on track.

After Mass a few weeks ago, I lingered a few minutes to ask for the intercession and help of Saint Joseph.  As a Catholic dad and husband, who better for me to emulate than the patron saint of fathers?  I have long been drawn to Saint Joseph and find in his life the encouragement to be more obedient and trusting in God’s promises.  Even though I often wrestle with self-created challenges on the parenting and marriage fronts, my shortcomings are somewhat lessened when I pray for his intercession and reflect on his heroic example in caring for Jesus and Mary.

As I have reflected on his life and prayed in earnest the last few weeks, I have gotten back on track with my family responsibilities and regained the peace that frequently leaves me when I allow work and the pressures of the world to dominate my thoughts and calendar.  Here are five important lessons I have learned from Saint Joseph as I have addressed my most recent struggles:

Five Lessons from Saint Joseph

  1. Saint Joseph was obedient.  Joseph was obedient to God’s Will throughout his life.  Joseph listened to the angel of the Lord explain the virgin birth in a dream and then took Mary as his wife (Matthew 1:20-24).  He was obedient when he led his family to Egypt to escape Herod’s infanticide in Bethlehem (Matthew 2:13-15).  Joseph obeyed the angel’s later commands to return to Israel (Matthew 2:19-20) and settle in Nazareth with Mary and Jesus (Matthew 2:22-23).  How often does our pride and willfulness get in the way of our obedience to God?
  2. Saint Joseph was selfless.  In the limited knowledge we have about Joseph, we see a man who only thought of serving Mary and Jesus, never himself.  What many may see as sacrifices on his part, were actually acts of selfless love.  His devotion to his family is a model for fathers today who may be allowing disordered attachments to the things of this world distort their focus and hinder their vocations.
  3. Saint Joseph led by example.  None of his words are written in Scripture, but we can clearly see by his actions that he was a just, loving and faithful man.  We often think that we primarily influence others by what we say, when so often we are watched for our actions.  Every recorded decision and action made by this great saint is the standard for men to follow today.
  4. Saint Joseph was a worker.  He was a simple craftsman who served his neighbors through his handiwork.  He taught his foster son Jesus the value of hard work.  It is likely that the humility Joseph exhibited in recorded Scripture spilled over into the simple approach he took to his work and providing for the Holy Family.  We can all learn a great lesson from Saint Joseph, who is also the patron saint of workers, on the value of our daily work and how it should exist to glorify God, support our families and contribute to society.
  5. Saint Joseph was a leader.  But, not in the way we may view leadership today.  He led as a loving husband when he improvised to find a stable for Mary to give birth to Jesus, after being turned away from the Bethlehem inn.  He led as a man of faith when he obeyed God in all things, took the pregnant Mary as his wife and later brought the Holy Family safely to Egypt.  He led as the family provider by working long hours in his workshop to make sure they had enough to eat and a roof over their heads.  He led as a teacher by teaching Jesus his trade and how to live and work as a man.

As Catholic men, we have a responsibility to be strong fathers and husbands, leaders in our parishes, good stewards in the community and humble followers of Christ.  Let’s look to the inspiring example of Saint Joseph, patron saint of fathers, workers and the Universal Church for his obedience, humility, selflessness, courage and the love he showed to Mary and Jesus.  If we can emulate St. Joseph even a little each day, we will be that much closer to becoming the men we are called to be.


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Randy Hain, Senior Editor and co-founder of The Integrated Catholic Life™, is the author of The Catholic Briefcase: Tools for Integrating Faith and Work which was released by Liguori Publications. The Catholic Briefcase was voted the Best Catholic Book of 2011 in the About.com Catholicism Reader’s Choice Awards.

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  1. Some years ago I stumbled upon the writings of St. Jose Maria Escriva, the founder of Opus Dei. I think of him as the saint of ordinary work. It seems clear to me that he was inspired by St. Joseph. His writings are available at http://www.escrivaworks.org. Allow me to recommend his homily “St.Joseph’s Workshop” in the collection of homilies entitled “Christ Is Passing By” as a worthwhile supplement to this article.

  2. Saint Joseph was the best, if not perfect, example of what a human father is all about. As a dad to a son myself, I can picture out how Joseph grabbed that opportunity to be a part of the developmental process of a new life. Fatherhood is one of the most wonderful, joyful, yet challenging experience a man could go through. It is to understand more by complaining less, and the expression of that fatherly love through actions.

  3. Thank you for this Father’s Day reflection on St. Joseph. A few years back I saw the movie The Nativity Story. To me the movie portrayed the story as if you are feeling Joseph’s experience. It was quite interesting and quite beautiful. I realized when watching this movie that St. Joseph was probably the first human to gaze upon the face of God. What a gift and a reward Joseph was given for his faithfulness!

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