by Mary Wallace, PhD | January 21, 2013 12:01 am
In full disclosure, I am not a Marian scholar. I am not fully versed in all of the Church doctrine about Mary, and how that applies to me as a lay person in the Church. I am approaching this topic and series as a faithful daughter who wants to grow in wisdom and understanding. My friend, who is of a different faith, asked me to write about the Rosary, and the impact on my life. Here goes…
My grandmother, a convert, taught me how to pray the Rosary. It was this time of my life where my understanding of Mary began to take form. I shared a room with my grandmother. At bedtime, she would take my hands in the dark, wrap them through hers and begin the repetitive prayer of the Rosary. Many nights, I would fall asleep to the soothing sound of my grandmother’s beautiful voice.
Additionally, Mom would tell me, “Jesus refuses nothing to His mother,” at critical times in my life. One time, she was dropping me off at college. She said, “You have to know that Our Lady is like your Mom. And remember, Jesus never refuses His mother. So you can always ask her to pray for you.”
The next time I remember my mom saying this was when my husband was in a coma. We weren’t seeing much healing. For sure, Steve was headed to Heaven. I was scared. It was the same scared I felt when Steve and I would travel in remote Oklahoma for Marriage Encounter events and run into thunder storms. The kids would be FRANTIC. To calm everyone down, we would start reciting the Rosary. Soon, everyone was focused on Jesus, through Mary. Though the storm was still brewing, the repetition of prayer and promise calmed everyone.
My mom asked me, “Have you been praying your Rosary?” I realized I had not, and she said, “You know – Jesus never refuses His mother.” What did this mean??
One day, our parish priest visited at the hospital. I asked him, “What does it mean that Jesus refuses nothing to His mother?” What he told me next lifted a veil from my eyes. He told me of Jesus’ first miracle… the water to wine at Cana. I had heard this story for years, of course. But I was totally focused on Jesus alone during the miracle. Fr. King was inviting me to consider Mary’s role in the miracle.
“On the third day there was a wedding in Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the wedding. When the wine ran short, the mother of Jesus said to him, ‘They have no wine.’ And Jesus said to her, ‘Woman, how does your concern affect me? My hour has not yet come.’ His mother said to the servers, ‘Do whatever he tells you’” (John 2: 1-5).
STOP RIGHT THERE! These words blew my socks off! Before getting to the miracle, the author of John spotlights the role of the MOTHER OF OUR SAVIOR! And, she had a large role in His miracle.
I realized Jesus did not initiate the miracle without urging from YOU KNOW WHO!!! MARY! HIS MOTHER! Our Lady participated in Jesus’ first miracle by interceding on behalf of the hosts of the wedding!
The light bulbs were going off in my head. I had embraced intercessory prayer years before this, and had been asking Padre Pio’s intercession for Steve. But with all of the criticism about Catholic devotion to Mary from other religions, I kept my devotion to her pretty surface. What was being spotlighted for me was, yes, I could pray DIRECTLY to Jesus, AND ask Mary’s intercession – Mary, who is right next to Jesus in HEAVEN!
That night, I did two things… After my last ICU visit to Steve that night, I returned to the lobby and I surrendered Steve to God’s care. I asked for His will to be done. The second thing I did was prayed the Rosary, reflecting deeply on Christ’s suffering (Sorrowful Mysteries). I then asked Mary, as my mother and also Mother of God, to approach her Son on my behalf to ask if Steve’s life could be spared, if it were His will, and regardless of the answer to that prayer, to give my family the faith to move mountains. Two days later, Steve started making marked improvements. So did my faith.
Praying the Rosary during traumatic circumstances did a few things for me:
Our Lady of Perpetual Help, pray for us!
This is the first in a series on The Mary Journey by Mary Wallace.
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