The Widow’s Mite

Editor’s Note: Reflection on the Mass readings for the Thirty-Second Sunday in Ordinary Time (Year B) – First Kings 17:10-16; Psalms 146:7, 8-9, 9-10; Hebrews 9:24-28; Mark 12:38-44 or 12:41-44. This series usually appears each Wednesday.

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The time lag between the two widows in this Sunday’s readings was considerable.  Lots of things change in 800 years. But one thing their two societies had in common – they offered neither social security, welfare, 401(k) plans, nor pension plans.  With no husband to provide for them, both widows were literally at the mercy of those around them, totally dependent on the generosity of others.

When you put that together with severe famine, the picture that emerges is rather bleak indeed.  So when Elijah meets up with the widow of Zarephath, she confides that she is about to prepare what she expects to be the last meal for herself and her son.

Yet this does not deter Elijah.  He boldly asks that she bring food to him first, even before she takes care of her son.  This fits neither our normal idea of generosity nor hospitality.  Prevailing wisdom says to feed the guest after we’ve fed our kids.  Pay the bills first, then give to the poor a portion of your bonus check or tax refund.

But the widow of Zarephath does give what’s left over.  Like the widow in the gospel who puts the famous “mite” into the temple treasury, she gives not out of her surplus, but out of her want.  She gives first and asks questions about her own needs later.

It takes not only generosity to do this, but also faith.  Perhaps that’s part of the message.  These widows knew that God was inviting them to depend upon him for their sustenance, not upon themselves.  Therefore, there was no reason to be grasping about what lay in their hands today–since God would provide more daily bread tomorrow.  Remember the manna that fell in the desert?  The people were forbidden to gather up more than one day’s worth, except the day before the Sabbath, and then only because all work, even gathering manna, was forbidden on the Sabbath day.

We don’t know how the gospel widow fared in the days after she gave her mite to God.  But we do know that by special divine intervention, the little bit of oil and flour of the widow of Zarephath lasted day after day until the famine ended in the land.  She who had been willing to give a cup of cold water to a prophet certainly received a prophet’s reward.

There is something else the two widows have in common.  Often, when people give large sums of money, they are anxious that others notice.  The desire to impress men outweighs the desire to delight God.  With the scribes of Jesus’ day, it was all about “keeping up appearances.”  Fine robes, front seats, and pious public prayers all served to make the case that these were indeed worthy, religious men.  The gospel does not clearly say this, but it could be imagined that if they happened to put big bucks in the temple treasury, they’d make sure everyone knew about it.

The gifts of the two widows, on the other hand, were hidden from the view of others.  We’d never know about the widow of Zarephath’s kindness and courage were it not for the inspired writer including this story in the first book of Kings.  Neither would anyone have noticed the widow dropping a single coin in the basket had Jesus not drawn the apostles’ attention to the incident and commented on its significance.  Indeed, we should be reminded that while little about our lives makes the evening news, God sees everything, even the smallest acts of generosity and faith.

The stories of the two widows were recorded, of course, not for their sake.  They have received their reward and no earthly notoriety could possibly do them any good now.  No, the stories are told again and again for us.  They serve as a reminder that ultimately it is not about how much we give, but with how much faith and love we give it.

Dr. Marcellino D’Ambrosio writes from Texas. For his resources on parenting and family life or information on his pilgrimages to Rome and the Holy Land, visit or call 1.800.803.0118. This article originally appeared in Our Sunday Visitor and is reproduced here by permission of the author.

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Dr. Marcellino D'Ambrosio

Dr. Marcellino D’Ambrosio writes from Texas. For his resources on parenting and family life or information on his pilgrimages to Rome and the Holy Land, visit or call 1.800.803.0118.

Raised in Italian/Irish neighborhood in Providence, RI, Marcellino D’Ambrosio never thought about being anything else but Catholic. But like other Catholic teens, his faith was the last place he looked for fulfillment. Following in the footsteps of his parents, both professional performers in their single years, Marcellino set his sights on stardom, playing bass guitar in several popular rock bands by the time he was 16. At that time he encountered a group of Catholics whose Christian life was an exciting adventure, an adventure worth living for. So he laid his bass guitar aside and embarked on a road that led to a Ph.D. in historical theology from the Catholic University of America. His doctoral dissertation, written under the direction of the renowned Jesuit theologian, Avery Cardinal Dulles, focused on one of the theological lights of the Second Vatican Council, Henri Cardinal de Lubac, and his recovery of biblical interpretation of the early Church fathers.

His writing has been published in the international journal Communio, Abingdon’s Dictionary of Biblical Interpretation, the Tablet, Catholic Digest, Our Sunday Visitor, and Catholic News Service’s syndicated column "Faith Alive." His popular book, Exploring the Catholic Church and video course by the same name (known as Touching Jesus through the Church in the USA) have been used in hundreds of parishes all throughout the English speaking world. The Guide to the Passion: 100 Questions about the Passion of the Christ, of which he is co-author and co-editor, may prove to be the fastest-selling Catholic book of all time with over a million copies sold in less than three months.

Dr. D’Ambrosio, the father of five and a business owner, brings to his teaching a practical, down-to-earth perspective that makes his words easy to understand and put into practice. Audio and video recordings of his popular teaching are internationally distributed. He often appears on the international Eternal Word Television Network is regularly heard on the nationally syndicated radio show "Catholic Answers Live." Dr. D'Ambrosio has been a guest on Geraldo Rivera, At Large on FoxNews Channel, the Bill O'Reilly radio show and Radio America's news program Dateline: Washington.

In 2001 Dr. D’Ambrosio left his position at the University of Dallas to develop the work of Crossroads Productions, the apostolate of Catholic renewal and evangelization that he co-founded twenty years ago, and to more directly oversee the growth of Wellness Opportunities Group a company dedicated to helping people improve the quality of their lives physically, mentally, and financially. He, his wife Susan, and their five children, reside just outside of San Antonio, TX.

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